a few days ago.. one of the friend actually asked us how we actually tolerate "A".. and my friend blurted out





I've been thinking of it and it sounds so bad.. it seems like we as close friends of "A".. know the pattern of "A" but never voice out its wrong or shouldnt do these or that.. but allowing "A" continuing the ways it have been doing..


so because we are old friends that why we should get use to it? or we know that "A" will never change even if we told it.. so we just leave it?


I always thought as close friends we should be able to pinpoint and mould each other to be a better person.. but it seems like am not doing anything closes to that..


I remembered I was once told off by a good friend of mine for being always wanted both of the best world.. and it really knocked some sense out of me.. there bounds to have sacrifices regardless what choices you made.. and you must be able to weigh which is the more important..


I mean theres always give and take.. you cant possibly always want others to give in to you right? so learn to be a giver instead ya?


okii last line was blabbering nonsense..


anyway ms[ys] got engaged and she thought we already know (but we don't know) and just said out her ROM date -.- what a way to announce -_- hahaaa but still happy for her :)