hohohoz.. was "advisin" alexis abt wat he had done.. n it did triggered mE alittle.. tink god is helpin mE to help him too.. :)

expectations.. wat expectations do eu haf in others? ever wonder y sum ppl cld make eu angry.. make eu sad.. disappointment? expectations.. is d ting.. coz eu expect ppl to do tis way.. act tis wayz.. bt when dey did nt.. eu felt sad.. anger.. perhaps its bcoz of eu hafin too much expectations on him/her? n when it happened, ur anger n saddness will make eu do sumtin tat eu regret lata on regardless action or words.. remz.. dey r nt obligible to follow wat ur expectations had on dem.. nor do dey nid to report to eu aniting abt dem.. eu cant demand dem to live up to ur expectations..

purpose driven life day20 :

• When you expect anyone -- a friend, spouse, boss or family member -- to meet a need that only God can fulfill, you are setting yourself up for disappointment and bitterness. No one can meet all your needs except God.
• the tunnel of conflict is the passageway to intimacy in any relationship.. .. ..when conflict is handled correctly, we grow closer to each other by facing and resolvin our differences.
• resentment make us act and think in foolish ways.. .. ..We act beastly when hurt.

see..! hw god really help us in our daily life.. even d passage mentioned abt expectations.. kinda matched alexis's situation.. yeahz.. n m oso enlightened frm it.. n m noe in d past m had higher expectations on others.. even till recently.. soOo, m've learnt.. nO oNe is puRRfect.. sOo do m..

m lukin 4 tis bk.. "Five person you meet in heaven" tat stupig alexis cldnt lend me.. coz its his sis's fren's bk.. hohohoz.. soOo complicated.. bt seems lyk d bk sounds interestin.. mayb shd go ask ard frenz gt anot.. den can boRRow.. hohohoz